Sometimes, you will meet someone and it works. Sometimes,
you will meet someone and it will feel like God intervened and made you meet.
Most of the time though, you meet someone and they break your heart into a
million pieces and you start to wonder, “why me?”
With
hugot still being one of the trending topics of all time, we decided to ask Dr.
Paolo Bellosillo who is known for advocating living a quality life to share his
thoughts on how you can protect your heart from the greatest stressor in life,
a heartbreak.
What
are the qualities that a woman should look for in a guy?
A
woman needs to look for someone who is God fearing because if a man fears God,
he will be loyal, faithful, committed, responsible, and honest. These are
traits that any woman should want for in a man. A man like this will never make
you worry or fear that he will go astray.
What
are the qualities that a man should look for in their
future partners?
A
man needs to look for a woman who is capable of being their partner in life.
They need to find someone with a humble heart and someone who prioritizes their
relationship over their pride.
How
can you have a relationship that is good for both parties?
A
relationship that preserves the dignity of the other person is always a good
indication. When there is mutual trust and mutual respect, when a relationship
is rooted in prayer and kindness then reinforced by communication, you know
that it is beneficial to both parties.
What
are your 5 tips for a healthy, smooth sailing relationship?
- Pray
together. When God is at the center of everything, everything will fall
into place.
- Communicate.
As they said, almost everything can be sorted through an open and honest
communication. Avoid talking when both parties are in the peak of anger or fatigue.
- Be
kind. If you can’t be anything, if there is no more love, then at least be
kind. Avoid not to lose your respect for your partner.
- Be
open. The two of you are not the same person which means that you will not
have the same beliefs, the same principles, and the same ideologies. In
fact, chances are big that you will have different ones so be open to understanding
how the other person works.
- Let go
of fear. Most of the time, we react negatively because of fear.
Any
tips to our readers so that they too can have a lasting relationship?
Being
in love is primarily focused on the heart, on love but everyday should always
take that into account as love is a journey and a decision which both souls
builds on. While the whole world celebrates it, do so in a manner where
it focuses not on consumerism or material things because they fade. Be
original: play a song, sing a song, cook with love for your shared favorite
dish, go to the first place where it all began with your special someone, or go
to church and why delay it, say I DO, tie the knot. Just make sure the other is
ready and fits in the qualities and attributes of those listed above After All
when you Look Through The Eyes Of Love You Should Be Bringing Out The Best Of
Me/You, Here There and Everywhere.
